Does that New Year’s mantra bother anyone else? In all honesty I think it annoys me because…Can you keep a secret? I used to buy into it a little. Yes…I kind of did. You see there was a time and a place when I believed transformation had to be BIG and radical. Let’s change everything! New Year New You! It sounds so compelling. So get- off- your-ass and ignite BIG change in your life. However, I have come to learn that transformation -for the most part- is much more subtle